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Declaration of a Needed Lifestyle of Freedom

     If you want to understand my need to be naked around everyone - privately and publicly, individually and socially - well, here it is:  Twenty years is not a long time.  Forty years is not a long time.  Even, sixty or eighty years is just a blink of a generation in the history of humankind.  And, we are only blessed with this short amount of time to discover and be who we are.  To do and express in the way that we need to do and express.  Then, it's over folks.  The opportunity either embraced or missed.  One opportunity that is lived in this moment while we have breath within us.  We, likewise, in this moment, have the opportunity to discover and appreciate the uniqueness and the expressions of others.  As they need to be and express.  To see the beauty in our humanity.  And, in each other, before the opportunity is missed through the passing of someone we know or have met.  This is it folks, the opportunity to embrace each other's uniqueness is now.  At this time, and in the way we need to be amongst each other.  And, each of us is a bit different in our expression.  This is the beauty of life if we culture it and allow others to express it!  And, I cannot say this in any more simpler a way.  If we fail to recognize this or seek to stifle the expression of others through conformity to a finite pattern of what is appropriate for all to abide by, we will miss the opportunity to experience the diversity and beauty of the expressions of others around us.  And, likewise, our own unique expression.

     Not everyone is meant to wear clothes!  Some of us actually recognize that we are already beautifully adorned with clothing from birth, and it's called our skin and hair.  Given to us by G!D for the purpose of being seen by others, to identify us as the sacred and beautiful human creation that we are.  And, with this natural clothing that we are blessed from birth with - that hides nothing and equally entices us towards future generations with it placements, looks, and shapes - comes a whole lot of changes over the years.  We all watch it first hand, and I truly think that down deep this is the biggest reason for societal obsession with and insistence for clothing.  We don't like to be reminded that we are on a time schedule, prone to be a little awkward looking here and there and a bit more wrinkly as time goes on.  Some of us become more skinnier and some of us gain a little to a lot as life takes it's course.  And, because society has embraced an attitude of shame for our natural everyday look as humans without our clothes on, we privately see the changes going on and are reminded of our mortality as living creatures.  And, it is far better to hide this reality with things we create that have the potential to outlast us and that change less than we do in the minds of most who are indoctrinated with society's clothing obsession.  There is no balance and no reality check in this way.  And, so begins the way of idealism, that my way is better than yours, so you need to conform to it for the sake of the common good!  Does this not sound familiar, folks?  But, the truth as I and others have experienced it, tells us that everyone is truly beauty in some way in all our nakedness, regardless the affect that time and years have had upon us.  And, this awareness can only come from opening up to and honestly looking at others through non-judgmental eyes.  And, to look upon ourselves in the same way.

     I need to live a lifestyle without shame.  And, a lifestyle with a bit of comfort to it.  We all deserve at least this much during this life that we live.  I am a nudist.  And, I am this way, because I need to be.  Yes, need to be.  And, the reasons for this are physical, as well as mental, and as well as spiritual.  Not everyone is meant to wear clothes!  If I told you that I need to be physically naked all the time because to wear clothing irritates my skin and makes me terribly uncomfortable throughout the day, this is in fact the truth.  I have learned to grit my teeth over the years, to try not to constantly readjusted within the clothing, or to vocalize or facially express my discomfort while in clothes in a public setting.  But, terribly uncomfortable I daily am in those places I must conform and wear the dreaded garments of civilized-kind.  Garments that are geared to promote a steady societal state of shame for certain areas of the body and to generate a sexual interest in these very same areas of the human body, at the same time.  It's called style and fashion, and the pornography of it is everywhere in modern society.  It is overwhelming for people like me, and so pervasive that it is numbing and programming for those susceptible to its presence and influence.  So many think and feel that having a sexually oriented outlook upon the body is healthy and normal, and that those of us who need to be naked all the time, need it for this reason - that it is just an exhibition thang.  And, this is so far from the truth from my experiencing of it.  The obsession with clothing lends human thinking and nature towards this.  But, some of us are just geared towards being naked.  We are even more approachable when we are comfortably in this state.  And, I know that at least with me, I would so much rather that you know and experience me daily in my birthday suit clothed state, than to ever see or have a memory of a stitch of clothing on me.  You be clothed as much and in what ever way you so feel, just don't seek to force this of me for the sake of "how others might think and react"!

     How hard is it, really folks, to undo the pattern of negativity towards the self that society has cultured into us?  Even I am afflicted by it, and daily I get someone who seeks to afflict me with it.  How hard is it to learn to appreciate the ways of life and lifestyle and the unique nature and needs of others without judgment of them based upon whether you would do it or live this way or not?  Oh, when will we adopt a social presence that truly encourages diversity amongst us, without laying down sensitivity rules that you must conform to the ways of the majority so that you are not offensive to a few that may be overly sensitive because of society's encouragement?  If what someone is doing and the way they live is not causing direct abusive harm to the society around him or her, what does it matter?!  What does it matter if he's dressed or not?  Really, when you honestly think about it.  I am expressing the beauty and nature that G!D created when allowing for the birth of me through the union of my parents.  And, this is the whole sum of what I seek to express on a daily basis, whether others are presently around me or not.  So, when is society going to learn to live and let others live too - to allow each of us our space and freedom to be, as is already allowed by the majority for the majority?   I ask this because I am tired of being asked or subtly pressured to wear the garments that cause so much angst within me, and hide me from just being me in the presence of the world around me.  Especially, when I know that it's alright to be this way, that - at least for me and those like me - that G!D intended this "naked" way of life for us.  G!D didn't bear us from the womb with more clothing than our natural birthday suit for a reason folks.  And, it's because we really don't need them, except on occasion for specific purposes - such as sexual enticement or to protect us from harsh elements of nature.  The other uses of clothing are all man-made and only work for those comfortable with wearing them. 

     I work a job that I absolutely loath, that requires me to conform to a clothed way of life that has me daily in angst and uncomfort.  All for the sake of a paycheck for I and my family, because I love them that much and feel obligated to provide for them.  So, because I have not yet managed to create a lifestyle socially and work related that allows me to just be me, I drink and smoke over this issue. I stress daily throughout.  And, I hate that I do this to myself, the one who promotes good health and lifestyle.  But, I am angst every moment I am in clothes.  And, I am angst every time I am out of clothing and others seek to hide my existence from others because of it or seek to have me dress up so that they can have others around us with me present.  All because they fear automatically that others will not appreciate, understand, or become acclimated to the way I need to be in this world.  All I'm asking for is just to find myself surrounded by others who do appreciate me as I am naturally inclined to be.  To appreciate my freedom to be fully clothed in just and only my birthday suit, and to be open and, possibly, even desirous to socialize with me while I am naked in your presence.  This is not much that I ask for.  And, by having others around me that understand the importance of "living and let live" and enjoying the opportunity to experience me as I need to be experienced by others, I would not be in such angst over the conflict of my need to be as I am comfortable being and others need to be dressed differently.  The two lifestyles are compatible given a willingly conducive environment.  Not everyone is meant to live in clothes.  And, I am bonafide and truly one of them! 

     I have this website because I don't appropriately and adequately get what I need in my daily life.  This is the simple truth of it.  For were I getting what I need to be at peace internally, to be free of the wrestling between what others around me would have me conform to for their comfort, then I wouldn't need to have a personal web site that expresses 24/7/365 what I need to express to an anonymous world of viewers who just want to look and keep without real interaction with me.  This has been the only compromise that has kept me from losing my mind over an issue about me being naked openly that, G!D knows, I truly don't understand why exists.  Some will look upon this writing and this exhibitionist online expression of mine as a "whoah is me" bitching.  And, look upon me as a person who simply can't be happy with life as it is.  And, I do understand why they would feel this way, if they are comfortable living in a social world that they do not feel at odds with.  I accept this.  I am not here to seek their approval of my words and expressions, and life is too short to live in conformity with the desires of others at the expense of one's uniqueness and personal needs.  And, when the time comes and passed I have from this world of the living, maybe then certain ones close to me that I love dearly will understand what it is that I have been attempting to share here - why in everyday daily lifestyle and here online I have been so steadfastly and stubbornly true to what I know to be true about life.  Maybe then, they will appreciate and even, maybe, seek to share the opportunity for others to experience my uniqueness as an individual.  Even though it'd be now only in a sharing of some photographs or videos that I have made or allowed to be made of me.  I would wish that this happens before that passing, that while I am living others can feel inclined to encourage the socializing of others with I as I am naturally inclined to be in all my birthday suit glory.  To at the very least show me off as eye-candy, if real acceptance of a wholesome way of living is just not possible at this time within them.  At least allow me this much honor.  And, I can only hope that this ends up being the truth of this life that is being expressed here in the world of the living.  May G!D, please, make this a reality, so that I can be finished with explaining myself to anyone!

     Sincerely and honestly written by Tsefanyahu, a man who simply must openly wrestle with life for the sake of others and himself.  And, I am true to my word, sooo ... to take an anonymous view of my nakedness and see for yourself why I am not bashful and that I'm truly serious about what I've written here, feel free to visit my Four Photographs of Your Web Host Naked page, which is findable on this web's Site Map page (link is directly below).

Expressions I have either coined or completely agree with (through understanding and need):

"I am so tired of keeping my nudism within the closet, when appreciating me for who I am as I am is so easy to do by others.  Just accept me in all my blunt nakedness and appreciate my natural leaning towards this is all I ask, rather than insisting that I conform to an image embraced by the majority.  For living that image is the greatest source of my angst in life."

"If it shames you to remember me as a man, rather than as an image, then I am not worth remembering and would rather you not."

"Being clothes-free is more than just a need to be seen as I really am by others, it's a need to express the very soul of who I am.  It is a religious experience in as much as a nudist experience!"

"Living only for those I love, with no space for me to openly just be me, is causing me unbearable angst.  I need balance between the two!"

"If a man cannot live openly naked in his own home, then he lives in a prison of circumstance and societal pressure.  I say, whoah to the man who does not embrace his nature."

"Life is too short to be worried about what others think of me.  You will either choose to appreciate my unique ways or you will not.  If you choose to do so, may you also choose to socialize with me as I am in my G!D-given birthday suit"

"Nudism is a wholesome and healthy experience.  It should be embraced by at least someone within every home, for the sake of society and the self-esteem of others."

"Children who grow up in a nudist environment do not have the body sensitivity issues that children who grow up textile bound do.  This is a proven researched fact.  Seeing others naked, to include their parents and siblings, is not an issue for them.  It's called growing up without shame.  And, those few that do develop sensitivity are an exception based on their internal nature."

"G!D gave us our natural bodysuit, skin and hair, for us and others to look upon.  Why are we hiding it?  It's sacred and beautiful!"

"Even our sexual nakedness (the human in an aroused state) deserves as much appreciation and applause when seen as does our sensual nakedness.  For at all times the naked human is wholesome and holy.  It is only in his acts of intent that he can be otherwise.  And, we need to recognize this, to accept our nakedness both privately and socially and uplift it.  For life is too short and ever changing to miss this glorious opportunity to express our human-ness and our beauty as openly revealed living beings!"

"Nudity is no big deal.  The big deal comes from all our attention upon clothes, and the perceived reasons for wearing them.  Many of those reasons are actually based in shame.  Not everyone is meant to wear clothing, and society needs to make a place for them.  So, respect those who have no shame, and honor them for their bravery."

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