On this page are excerpts from Tsefanyahu Yosef's human sexuality and relationships blog. He doesn't know (yet!) that I've shared them here with you. But, these thoughts are just too good to keep just among his friends! At least I feel so. So, here you go, the secret blog of TsefanYosef exposed for all you women who have an interest in this kind of subject matter. I hope you're as appreciative as I am, because (pardon the explicative) he is so fucking hot! I'm going to start with one of his poems, because I myself, having experienced taking it all off outside in nature among select friends, do understand this feeling within him.

     Posted on October 12 at 7:07 pm ... If I could live a life of nudity, I would. If I could earn a living being naked all the time, I would. If I could walk down the streets of my village and patron the stores in my birthday bodysuit, I would. Even if everyone else was in clothes besides me, I would be so honored and in joy to be naked in all's presence. I would smile and share the comfort I am experiencing. I would live my life socially involved like everyone else, just without the clothing. And, I would know oneness and wholeness for this. I would be at peace from the wrestling inside, and a genuine source of inspiration for others. I would live my name, "He who adds." If I could live my life naked, interacting with others in my birthday bodysuit. If I could, I know that I would. And, I no longer would be a life in hiding.

     Posted on January 3 at 7:17 pm ... What good is it doing the things that inspire us, or give us pleasure, or relieve personal stress if these things are meaningful only for us? What good is it to work a job that benefits and serves others, if we are literally unhappy day-in and day-out even being there? What good is anything that has meaning for us or that we create meaning to, if it does not bring in a productive income for the welfare of family? These are the questions I am wrestling with, along with my daily behaviors, behaviors that amount to time consumed and actions done that amount, from the perspective of maybe most, to be random thrills and/or utter meaninglessness. Is there anything that I do, that I enjoy doing because it brings me joy (outside of playing with my kids, I'm talking the adult side of life here!) that actually has real tangible value in the eyes of others?! I'm not talking the housekeeping stuff or the loyal keeping of a job with a paycheck, I'm talking the things that catch your interest inside (from the libido on up!) and make you desire to engage yourself in. If so, what do I need to hear from others to convince me that this is so, that I've been achieving this with my behaviors?! Where's the money proof, too? I really hate what I do for a living (and I really don't know why!), and what I enjoy doing, which you see here on my personal profile web site, I make no money in doing at all and can be perceived as so selfish and self-centered as an occupation that I don't even know how to engage in it professionally, as a man sharing himself rather than exploiting another. I'm at a loss as to how to successfully transition the money part into the joy part, when I don't even know the true impact my online expressions have! Have any couples gotten pregnant because of watching me doing my 'thang' in their visual video presence and, being so primally inspired, gotten busy? Have any individual's relationship with their partner or significant other been improved, blessed, or healed from his/her experiencing of what I daily share here? I don't get enough response, some yes but not enough, to even know if I've made any real tangible impact in the lives of others, even when I ask for it. All I do know is that every day I look upon gorgeous women and men, and feel such a sexual draw towards them. Their movements, the way they dress, the way their dress wear reveals parts of them that are just so humanly attractive - flesh momentarily uncovered, especially the women and also the men. Such a draw that in all their clothe-ness, I wish to be naked before them enjoying their smiles and giggles and having a great conversation with them! (I ask for so little in life! Just the attention and the acknowledgement that your attention has been given!) And, then I tell myself who am I kidding, for real Joseph (are you serious with me?) and I shift my thoughts back onto my wife and children. I love them so much, I never want to embarrass them over the impact of what I do for peace and healing! Regardless how much I need this to simply be a balanced and completely whole person. Hence, why I long for friends who know me in person, and will embrace me for their pleasure as, yes, I dare to be in their presence. Which I would hope would be what they are asking for, me playing and working my ass off with them and in their presence fully naked in their clothes-wearing (or not) presence. What good is doing things that bring us peace and pleasure, if we feel alone in doing it, even in the midst of joyful, smiling, passing neighbors?! I have nothing more to say for now, I need a break from thinking. I think to f-en g-d much!!

     Posted on October 1 at 11:25 am ... I respect strength and dominance when it is applied with love in friendship. Imagine with me, if you would, a world of balanced dominance and submission. Where during the day dominants lead and submitters follow. But, once evening time comes, dominants become submitted to the followers, and submitters become dominants over the leaders. And, the lines are so clearly defined that the two worlds of social life and friendship life are never broken. What goes on during the day, stays with the day; and, what goes on during the evening, stays with the evening. I imagine often having friends/coworkers/neighbors like this, to actively engage in this balanced world with me. For I give so much of myself during the day as a leader, a dominant, directing what others are going to do for me, work and social -wise, and expecting them to do it to my satisfaction. Which is tough and demanding, seeing how I am an A personality in nature. Which means, you're going to do it again however many times if I'm not satisfied. And, I so much wish that in my private life, the life off the job around friends/coworkers/neighbors, that ones around me would so recognize my need to now just submit to them, fully, in an entertaining way and/or intimate way, that they would demand it of me. Lovingly and unrentlingly demand of me, of course, just as sternly as I demand of them or to others around them near every single day. Imagine a world where we can successfully keep professional and public life separate of personal and private life. What goes on during the day stays with the day, and what goes on in the evening stays with the evening. I say it this way just as an example. Because, some have day-time private lives, and some have evening public lives. Just as long as professional and friendship are kept separate. When it's time to work, it's time to work! And, likewise, when it is time to play, it's time to reverse the roles of who is dominant and who is submissive and play hard! I long to have a friend or two, who are clearly understanding of what I'm saying here and can live by it. A friend or two who can be my Mistress and/or Master during the times of active play. The someones who I can finally submit to fully, but equally and fully accept my role as Master during times of work. In the same kind of willingness that I have to give to each of these activity periods of the day. And, not just that this reversal of role-play occur just between those who follow my dominance, but also with those who I must submit daily to in my dominant role. Just in this case, in the evening, they remain dominants and I submit even more fully to them in everyway! I wouldn't write these things, if I didn't believe it was possible to achieve this balanced way-of-lifestyle and if I didn't mean it that I would live it. But, then again, I expect too much of everyone in this world, don't I? Only a few of us a hardwired naturally towards keeping activities separate, along with the emotions and memories that go with it. And, most need a lot of self-developed discipline to keep such a balanced way-of-lifestyle. So, maybe I hope too much for my life experiences, because of this. Disappointing if this is true. Because, I so want to fully submit and be just royal and willingly taken! Pleasurably so, humblingly so, knowingly so, and deservingly so. So, that I feel proud from the using. So that I feel like a man! A balanced man between work and play, discipline and friendship.

     Posted on October 14 at 8:17 pm ... I am a very blessed man to have the marriage I have, and to have in my life the wife and children that show their love for me every day. I never thought I would ever be married though, because even the thought of a monogamous marriage, one wife and a few children, was throughout my adulthood a no-go, non-equation, unlikely-to-near impossibility for me. All because of my poly-oriented nature. A nature that has always had me longing for much more than most modern societies now allow for, something more ancient and less prone to divorce, drama, and serial re-marrying. But, life directed me towards the unlikely-to-impossible, and blessed me with a wife that I do so love and adore and the children that I wanted. At least, the start in numbers of children I envisioned having. Thus, life has yet to bless me with the community based marriage I've always wanted down deep. But, there is still hope in the possibility of this within my life and time. And, what I mean by a community-based marriage is this. I imagine my marriage consisting of six to seven wives and two to three husbands, and three to four children per wife. Each wife would have a home of her own, and all the homes would together form a village-of-sorts, a kibbutz, a nest for the raising of the generations to come. I know that I would not want to be the only man attempting to be 'the man' in chores and intimate matters for all my wives. Not to mention that men need the company and friendship of other men, along with the company and friendship/intimacy of women. So, my poly-marriage includes additional like-minded husbands to keep the balance of things in the areas of masculinity and femininity. Not to mention that I personally find both genders beautiful in look and desirable to pleasure. Hence, I'm given to the idea of sharing the attention and the responsibility of husbandhood/fatherhood with other like-minded men, who will not only help to keep the wives and children happy, but share in the joys of daily living as a family. And, having a family to take care of daily is truly a joy. It also helps having the additional income sources, too. You might be asking at this point what are the benefits to a community-based marriage, besides the husbands doing a lot of chores with the wives and raising of children in a community-size family setting? Well, they are more than you may yet realize. For starters, at the most intimate level, there is always someone ready for a little playful pleasuring, even when another is not. Then, there is the greater ability to give a moment of secluded time to a wife or husband needing a little personal space for self-renewal, thus all wives and husbands stay freshly engaged in the exciting challenge of daily family life. Another benefit is the village friendship and support that is often lacking in modern communities. Then there is also the benefit of the opportunity to have village-based sources of revenue, such as businesses. I envision, as well, in my poly-marriage we having a community farm and kitchen, so no one adult is left with handling all the responsibilities of maintaining home and livelihood for all or part of the family. A whole lot of pluses, and the reason poly-marriages are so ancient and historically successful. And, this is the marriage I've always down deep wanted to experience in my life. The only thing that the others would have to accept about me is that I personally would be naked near all of the time, indoors and outdoors, seeing how I am a religious nudist. But, I set such a good example though, it is worth accepting this as one of the benefits, too. Any friends interested in helping me build this family-village based poly-marriage with my wife and family? Actually, I'd be happy with just some thoughts, comments, and experiences on this. Share with me, please?

     Posted on October 25 at 11:38 pm ... I'm a male and, yes I did, watch this movie tonight in the theatre with my wife. She's been reading the book, and wanted to see this movie. I wanted to share a little 'date night' time with her, as one attending boss of the feminine kind called it when seeing us at the theatre. Quite honestly, I thought this movie would last no more than ninety minutes, like most estrogen movies that I have seen, but it actually turned out to be two hours and twenty minutes. As a guy, I felt every minute! It's hard for a man to watch another man cry over f-ing up in life, seeing how we are all acutely aware, as men, of our own shortcomings in life. And, there was more than one man like this in this movie. But, equally as well, which I'm not sure many of the women who watched this movie tonight picked up on, I understood the purpose of this movie. The movie is about a woman who, being unsettled and unhappy with the life she had chosen and feeling the need to travel the world and find herself, decided abruptly one night to end her marriage and actually physically travel the world in search of self-enlightenment. She went through quite an experience, indeed, doing this, and I have to admire her bravery in abandoning the world she once knew to experience cultures so utterly foreign to her. Pausing now for a side note. My wife was able to point out every character of the book before the character even uttered a word on screen, so apparently they've done a very good job transferring the written word to visual print. The highlight of the movie for me was actually captured in three characters. To get the guy part of me out of the way, the minor of the three was the attention catching highlight for me. A man naked on the beach, with us looking at his, yes, handsome naked ass, trying to coax this soul-searching heroine into the nighttime Bali waters for some sexual fun. Now maybe it might be socially wrong to say so in some cultures, but I would have been so pleased, if they had actually let us have a view of the front side too, which they didn't obviously, because this is a Hollywood produced flick, so that a man like me could enjoy a moment of size-comparing. Seeing how I think - uh, correction, I know - that I'm all that physically, too. But, the message of the movie was actually captured in two women, and I was very pleased that it was the women that presented this message. A message I so readily picked up on, seeing how I've been traveling the world for thirty years in search of self-realization. The message of this movie came multiple times from the mouths of these two women and was directed to our heroine. One was an older Italian mama, and the other was a bit more younger Bali mama. Both of them had the same message for her, our self-realizing heroine, and this message is to settle down and get married. Only then, when you settle into this, will you discover the self-realization you've been looking for. Only when you engage with the life and lifestyle you were born to be brought up in, as in the case of the seventeen year old Indian bride-to-be, or have accepted as the natural order for the survival of generations to come, as in the most common reason for humans getting married, will you begin to engage truly with yourself. Crossing the oceans to repeatedly change the scenery will give you lots of memorable memories, indeed, but self-realization only comes from within. Self-realization only comes by engaging with life, like us soul searchers see daily around us and feel still yet so separated from, in the sometimes happy- sometimes-dramatized daily behaviors of others around us. And, I do wonder how many women watching this movie tonight actually got the message being presented here. They've come to watch the movie, because they identify with 'her' pain and anguish over life 'as it is,' but did they catch what the two mama's of the movie were teaching them? I'm probably going to get a lot of flack for seeing this, but this is okay. Whether man or not, I've been doing for real what 'she' was doing in this movie for the last thirty years. And, the more I accept the costumed work role that I am not in my wrestling spirit, and the more I accept the role of daddy that I am in body and spirit, the more I discover how true the message is coming from these two mamas of the movie. You find enlightenment within yourself, and it only comes by embracing what is the reality around you. And, for this message alone, this is a really good movie. Even if it is a 'chick flick.'

     Posted on January 30 at 12:58 pm ... For the last twenty years I have been itching all over when in clothes. It does not matter the type of material, whether I've washed it umpteen times, what allergy reducing detergent I use, how hot the water is when I wash the clothes, and so forth. Still yet, I put clothes on and I am itchy all over, in even in places where clothes are not touching the skin. I am totally at a loss for this. And, my only way of dealing with this is the following: When in clothes, force myself not to scratch the itchiness all over my body. To not make a scene publicly that I am extremely itchy all the time. But, the result of this is that I'm obviously irritable all the damn time. The other solution, which unfortunately gets me occasionally in trouble with the law, due to certain rare individual who take offense to this, is to take all the clothes off and just stay naked as often as I can indoors and outdoors. When there is no clothing on me, I am fine. No itchiness of the skin at all! Even the cotton robe I am wearing this moment has me itchy on the face, the arm, the leg, the scrotum, the buttocks, the back and chest, and even two of my toes. And, I'm trying desperately not to scratch, and occasionally failing at this. Is it possible to be literally this allergic to the presence of clothes upon body, or am I suffering from a psychological disease that is causing me to lose my mind? Over ninety-nine percent of my neighbors have gotten used to me being naked indoors and outdoors when home because of my need to keep the clothes off. But, that one percent, that keeps causing me such legal troubles, because of their ignorance and disinterest in my condition, is causing me considerable emotional and mental anguish in life. Extreme anguish! I so want to be like most people in this world!! But, I can't! I'm itchy and irritable all the damn time when in clothes, and they need to come off!! Am I truly this doomed in being able to fit into society? Now my eye is itching. Dermatologist have found nothing wrong with my skin itself. No mites, only hives, and have recommended everything I have tried. But, I'm still itchy in clothes, and need to be naked as often as I can, even if it means publicly before everyone. And, I'm not even trying to be seen, clothing is just this uncomfortable for me. Every day I am in agony! Will some please help me to understand what is happening here? Please?!

     Posted on February 5 at 12:55 pm ... It's nice to be naked again, openly and publicly so. I am a man who needs to be and must be for health reasons. It preserves my sanity and brings peace within me to be this way. And, yes, I enjoy the appreciation of others who see me this way. Every time this happens, I am so blessed to have neighbors, friends, and coworkers like I have. I am an excellent example of health in all my nudity before life. It does not matter whether the psych considers me a case study, because I am obviously unapologetic about it, about being different from the norm of human civilization. Some people are just allergic to all clothing, such as I, and need to be set free. Some people are just religious inclined to ascetic nudism, because of this. The human body in it's nude form is beautiful and appropriate for all genders, ages, and ethnicities to see. No human dogma and idealism can change this simple truth. And, there is a reason for people like me in society and, sadly, the persecution we occasionally suffer from the actions of those few who would attempt to hurt us for being who we are meant to be. I set a good moral example of living the human life in all my nakedness before others. I only ask that you embrace me as the sacredly nude man in your midst! Accept me, as so many have already done, as 'This is who he is and, if he's going to share it, then we're going to enjoy it and be inspired!" Blessed be the Creator for every friend, neighbor, coworker, family member, and stranger who does this! Thank you, G!D, for the breath of life and the right to be the human I need to be.

     Posted on September 18 at 8:16 pm ... For this profile, my pen name is Tsefanyahu Yosef. I have a valid reason for this pen name. My actual name is Joseph Tsefanyahu Farkasdi. I feel it is important that you, my friends, know this. For honesty and truthfulness is what I am all about. I fully believe in being genuinely Real with others and oneself! This is the only way to live life fully, and in joy.

     He's made a few videos, too, that are definitely worth the watching!

your-friend-in-clothes.mp4 (a fashion show)      your-friend-tsefanyahu-yosef-dancing.mp4      vids-for-my-mistress-o-m-5mv.mp4

     If you'd like to experience more of Yosef's writings, then click here. The username and password that he has for protection of his personal web site is too easy to get, it's 'Guest' and 'ABC123'. You won't want to miss this, ladies, I'm telling you one woman to another. It just gets more interesting the deeper you go!